Number 6,
You took the words right out of my mouth!! Even your comments about parents and grandchildren fit my situation exactly. I don't intend to even acknowledge their (elders) attempts to reach me, but if, somehow they get through and confront me, I'm just going to stare at them, and not answer any questions. What they do with that is up to them. I don't care, it's got nothing to do with me, anymore so than if it was a Catholic priest or a Mormon at my door. What has that got to do with me? To worry about it, IMHO, means that somewhere deep inside, you still acknowledge some WT authority.
Stan